I’m proud I ‘showed up’ at family Christmas this year.
After gifting presents, I announced I had one more thing. I proceeded to wrangle/guide my small family (parents, sister, husband) through a presencing process and used an interactive card game to each share what we want more of in 2020. There were some nervous giggles. We shuffled through doing something that was new to us as a family. And we ended up revealing what was meaningful to us and why.
We accessed heart space and actually heard each other. We completed with a bit more clarity and connection and understanding.
This is kinda a big deal because I don’t really do my ‘work’ so blatantly with my family. We don’t ‘do’ processes together. I was a little hesitant to share something dear to me, wanting it to be received well and unsure how it would land.
I’m the ‘rainbow sheep’ of the family who does slightly obscure things that are unfamiliar & initially a little awkward. I discovered by coming in with no pressure and clear intent that my family took to it with open hearts.
I realised my dreams of sharing these types of processes with my family are, indeed, meaningful and that it’s important for me to show up where I feel called to, even if I don’t know the outcome. I needed to be flexible, meet people where they were at and trust my own process.
Being oneself around family and people who share similar story/karma/conditioning can be a rough gig. It can also be quite surprising, and powerfully healing.
We can’t know the impact rippled out from our authenticity. Backing ourself with grace, kindness, love and trust to ‘do the thing’ can upgrade the family paradigm in karma-shifting ways. There’re no guarantees and the vulnerability is palpable. And that leading edge is what makes it so magic.
So...may we all show-up for reals with the medicine we have to offer life in all the little moments; you don’t know what magic lies in wait 🌿
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